A bit of a queer question

Gavin Scott · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 09.41

Not The Chef wrote:OK, but do you get what I mean when I say "natural"? It's not the traditional thing/done thing/etc etc, man was designed to bone woman etc etc

*This* man was designed to "bone" men, not women.

Whether you beleive I was designed by nature, or even God, I am the way I was made.

Homosexuality has existed for as long as sexuality full stop. If natural selection played a part then we surely wouldn't exist.

johnnyboy · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 09.51

As a straight guy, I can't believe that gay guys are really straight men who want to have sex with other men.

The "choice" argument makes absolutely no sense to me whatsoever.

My best mate bats for the other team, and there is no doubt that he is that way naturally.

marksi · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 10.06

Not The Chef wrote:OK, but do you get what I mean when I say "natural"? It's not the traditional thing/done thing/etc etc, man was designed to bone woman etc etc

It's not that it's not "natural"... it's just less common.

Spencer For Hire · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 11.11

marksi wrote:
Not The Chef wrote:OK, but do you get what I mean when I say "natural"? It's not the traditional thing/done thing/etc etc, man was designed to bone woman etc etc
It's not that it's not "natural"... it's just less common.

I'd second that.

It does puzzle me though when homophobes use the 'it's not natural' argument against being gay. What's so good about 'natural'?

Natural: Tsunamis, malaria, anthrax... heterosexuality?
Un-natural: Shoes, kidney dialysis machines, under-arm deodorants... homosexuality?

Pete · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 11.37

James Martin don't you ask this every year? It's a regular the GMTV revamp rumour

Gavin Scott · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 12.46

Its true that this is the third, possibly fourth incarnation of this thread from the same member.

I can't imagine the answers being very different each time, or why his curiosity hasn't been satisfied.

But I don't mind fruity threads. Keep 'em coming.

Gavin Scott · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 12.50

johnnyboy wrote:

Johnnyboy, you saucebottle!

Unless you find a way to wedge a picture of your face betwixt those cheeks you may be in trouble...

johnnyboy · Tue 11 Jul, 2006 14.01

Gavin Scott wrote:Unless you find a way to wedge a picture of your face betwixt those cheeks you may be in trouble...

I have been thinking about wedging my face betwixt those cheeks, but it might violate some of the so-called "court injunctions" about my behaviour. :roll:

Davidjb · Thu 03 Aug, 2006 19.29

Well i have known i was gay for more years than i can remember. I have never had sexual feelings for women ever. It's definatly in your system from birth.

Sput · Thu 03 Aug, 2006 20.03

I was gay until I met Johnnyboy. He put me right off.

Lorns · Thu 03 Aug, 2006 20.28

Blimey! Is this just directed at the males of this forum?

I do actually class myself as straight but then i find some women sexually attractive too. If the occassion was to arise i'd make love to another woman, but that would be through choice. I've fancied women for as long as i can remember but i'm not a lesbian. I wouldn't even consider myself as bi-sexual or even bi-curious. I've kissed other women but it's never led to anything further yet but i won't lose any sleep over it.
When i was about 10 years old some girl about 16 came onto me, she lived next door and she was babysitting me. I was rather freaked out about it and had trouble sleeping for months afterwards. She used to threaten me with telling my brother, and that he wouldn't believe me if i said it was her idea. I was pleased when she moved back to Liverpool, but i've found it difficult to make close friends with women since then. Which is probably why i've never had sex with another woman.

As for gay men, why are the nicest and best looking men gay? It's so unfair!

Straight men tend to be neandothal or am i just unlucky?