This is odd but I'm sure you lot will help. I've been far too busy with work and other shite I've not had time for many people, and now the friendship I have with someone I thought I was fairly close to seems to have gone.
We talk(ed) loads on MSN often staying up late into the night nattering, now this has gone, despite the fact we're almost always online we never talk like we used to.
What can/should I do to stop this and get back to how we were?
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Big Brother
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The best way to tackle this is to be brutally honest with yourself.
If this friendship is only over the net and the other person is like miles and miles away then they're life will move at a different pace to yours and perhaps they've got side-tracked elsewhere.
Knowning people on the net isn't quite the same as it is in real life, on the net people will often have very different persona's from what they do in real life. Online you can be more confident appearing and for me I'm just plain dead rude online.
Personally, If I was you I'd look at the worst case scenario because if you don't you just be setting yourself up for further disappointment.
If this friendship is only over the net and the other person is like miles and miles away then they're life will move at a different pace to yours and perhaps they've got side-tracked elsewhere.
Knowning people on the net isn't quite the same as it is in real life, on the net people will often have very different persona's from what they do in real life. Online you can be more confident appearing and for me I'm just plain dead rude online.
Personally, If I was you I'd look at the worst case scenario because if you don't you just be setting yourself up for further disappointment.
