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Hi guys

I would appreciate any advice you could give. It's just dawned on me that I have no social life at all. I'm 20 years old and never had a relationship and only have a couple of close friends who I hardly see. I don't go out to clubs and I'm only working part-time at the moment.

I want to change this, but I'm not sure how. Also, I feel as if I'm wasting/missing out on my youth, what do you guys think?

Your best bet will be try and get involved in social activities with people you work with if they are fairly decent like minded people your sort of age. When I was in my late teens I was lucky enough to work with loads of people my age, we had some great times and I still see a handful of them now 15 years later.

I really would make an effort to make friends and have great experiences, if you feel like you lack confidence then see if you can take on some work in the local weatherspoons or some place where you have to interact and you'll mix with people your age.

Most of my close friends I met through work or college so being 20 you are still not too old go do a course that you can mix with some different people. If you choose your course wisely I think this will be a good place to start.