I was played by a woman! Whatever next?
Posted: Mon 16 Aug, 2004 13.17
In my seemingly endless search to find a woman fit enough to hold the title of 'girlfriend', I have ventured far and wide (well, the Newcastle and Gateshead metropolitan areas at least).
But, for the first time in my life, I was played by a woman! Perhaps this is karma, as I have been guilty of playing women myself in the past, but after this one, the playing stops!
We met up twice, ended up having a laugh together, lots of touching, eye contact and flirting, and on both occasions ended up going back to hers.
On the first occasion back at hers, she sat in a difficult position which meant I had to literally lunge across the sofa to get a snog. It was one of my least dignified and smooth closes!
I enjoy the snog but decide not to contact her again because I thought that she's going to make it difficult for me. After all, if you have spent five hours with a guy and invited him back to yours, you pretty well know whether you want to snog him or not, and how easy you're going to make it for him.
Two weeks passed by and she started texting me again. Eventually, we arrange to go out again and it happens pretty much in the same way as before, but now she won't snog me.
I mined a little bit of info earlier on that she had lost a lot of weight in the last few months and she was annoyed that she got a lot more attention now, so I think I was the one who she would reject and make things difficult for to restore some of her self-esteem.
Lesson learned though. Have you ever been played?
But, for the first time in my life, I was played by a woman! Perhaps this is karma, as I have been guilty of playing women myself in the past, but after this one, the playing stops!
We met up twice, ended up having a laugh together, lots of touching, eye contact and flirting, and on both occasions ended up going back to hers.
On the first occasion back at hers, she sat in a difficult position which meant I had to literally lunge across the sofa to get a snog. It was one of my least dignified and smooth closes!
I enjoy the snog but decide not to contact her again because I thought that she's going to make it difficult for me. After all, if you have spent five hours with a guy and invited him back to yours, you pretty well know whether you want to snog him or not, and how easy you're going to make it for him.
Two weeks passed by and she started texting me again. Eventually, we arrange to go out again and it happens pretty much in the same way as before, but now she won't snog me.
I mined a little bit of info earlier on that she had lost a lot of weight in the last few months and she was annoyed that she got a lot more attention now, so I think I was the one who she would reject and make things difficult for to restore some of her self-esteem.
Lesson learned though. Have you ever been played?