Chris wrote:*picks up talky stick*
Unfortunately the problem with certain new members is that they seem to think it's OK to use pidgin English on the forum. I just don't understand why is it so hard to write using proper English, and not using text speak or dropping all of the capital letters, apostrophes etc.
Granted some posters aren't English - fair enough; a bit of scrutinising of my server logs reveals that TVF gets many hits from around the world, including countries where English is not their first language but ones that do seam too think its ok 2 rite like ths, which hacks me off, somewhat.
I do not profess to be perfect at English, but at least I make the effort to make my posts readable and correct to the best of my knowledge.
Over and out.
There's a sort of irony about this spelling lark. Some tend to think they're smarter if they can spell correctly, whereas I would've thought the more intelligent person would be able to understand and put up with a lack of capital letters or apostrophes. No offence intended there, that's just my way of thinking.
Maybe this is something to do with how I was bought up, but I've never felt I've had the right to decide how intelligent a person is, or indeed get annoyed just because of the way they type. You simply have to get over the fact that not everyone speaks and types the same way.
As you say, they may not speak English, they may be dyslexic, they may have another reading or writing problem, they may have only three fingers on each hand, or they just may not have had the best English teacher. A lot of the time people with dyslexia get pissed off because they
can't read or write. If you couldn't read or write, imagine how you'd feel to have some snotty-nosed fart tell you to "use proper English or fuck off."
There has always been a grown-up (and quite effective) way of dealing with someone you can't understand. Ask them politely to explain what they mean. In my books, being polite rates a lot higher than any level of English. Politeness is so simple, they even teach it in primary school. Albeit unsuccessfully I might add, but that's another thread.
Every once in a while after I've made what I thought was a perfectly good post (OK probably a slightly thick one), I'll get a sarcastic one or two-word post following it along with that facking rolling eyes icon. And it would always be from one of the Earl Grey drinkers, or someone you'd expect to be a lot less childish. The way people are spoken to on that forum is very wrong, and it has contributed to a lot of the crap that happens on there now.
*Put's the stick down again*