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Posted: Tue 07 Jun, 2005 22.26
by mr smuf
The lass I started seeying 6 weeks ago is driving me mad. I find her insecure and needy. She sends me at least 35 txt messages per night!! I can't possibly keep up with this, its costing a fortune, and to be honest I can't be arsed replying every few mins from 6pm till late every night. It's not necessary. But every time I don't reply within 10 mins, she'll send me a txt asking if I'm OK cos I've suddenly gone very quiet!! Is this just a insecure/needy girl?

Not only that, but on the 4 times I've seen her, she's ended up giving me a blow job every time. Now I'm not complaining, but she does seem to be wanting sex too much. She txt'ed me one morning to say I should take a day off work so that she could have my cock in her mouth! I refused as I can't just take days off work, and then she said that I just didn't fancy her and that was the real reason!! Please! And then one night she wanted to go to the pub for a drink so I said yes. But about half an hour before the meet, she txt'ed to say she had a change of plan and wanted me to go over to her house instead.... so she could get my cock in her mouth of course!! Now this is happening on a frequent basis and she just seems to want me to get my cock in her mouth!

Is this lass just not getting sex or is there more to it? It's all very needy I'd say.

Posted: Tue 07 Jun, 2005 22.28
by Ant
mr smuf wrote:The lass I started seeying 6 weeks ago is driving me mad. I find her insecure and needy. She sends me at least 35 txt messages per night!! I can't possibly keep up with this, its costing a fortune, and to be honest I can't be arsed replying every few mins from 6pm till late every night. It's not necessary. But every time I don't reply within 10 mins, she'll send me a txt asking if I'm OK cos I've suddenly gone very quiet!! Is this just a insecure/needy girl?
Exactly the same here. Most of the time I just read the text and turn my phone off. Very annoying.

Posted: Tue 07 Jun, 2005 22.31
by Jamez
mr smuf wrote:The lass I started seeying 6 weeks ago is driving me mad. I find her insecure and needy. She sends me at least 35 txt messages per night!! I can't possibly keep up with this, its costing a fortune, and to be honest I can't be arsed replying every few mins from 6pm till late every night. It's not necessary. But every time I don't reply within 10 mins, she'll send me a txt asking if I'm OK cos I've suddenly gone very quiet!! Is this just a insecure/needy girl?

Not only that, but on the 4 times I've seen her, she's ended up giving me a blow job every time. Now I'm not complaining, but she does seem to be wanting sex too much. She txt'ed me one morning to say I should take a day off work so that she could have my cock in her mouth! I refused as I can't just take days off work, and then she said that I just didn't fancy her and that was the real reason!! Please! And then one night she wanted to go to the pub for a drink so I said yes. But about half an hour before the meet, she txt'ed to say she had a change of plan and wanted me to go over to her house instead.... so she could get my cock in her mouth of course!! Now this is happening on a frequent basis and she just seems to want me to get my cock in her mouth!
What's her number? ;) :lol:

Posted: Tue 07 Jun, 2005 22.40
by mr smuf
Jamez wrote: What's her number? ;) :lol:
Even you couldn't cope with that surely, Jamez :) :lol:

Posted: Tue 07 Jun, 2005 22.55
by Gavin Scott
mr smuf wrote:Is this lass just not getting sex or is there more to it? It's all very needy I'd say.
Needy? Um, yuh huh!

Doesn't this constant messaging interfere with other aspects of your life, like being out with mates?

If you were one of my mates and your girlfriend texted you 35 times during the course of our night in the boozer I'd tear a strip off you for allowing it.

Posted: Tue 07 Jun, 2005 22.58
by Jamez
Gavin Scott wrote:
mr smuf wrote:Is this lass just not getting sex or is there more to it? It's all very needy I'd say.
Needy? Um, yuh huh!

Doesn't this constant messaging interfere with other aspects of your life, like being out with mates?

If you were one of my mates and your girlfriend texted you 35 times during the course of our night in the boozer I'd tear a strip off you for allowing it.
Quite! I never take my mobile with me when I go out. I'm either likely to lose it or have it stolen!

Posted: Wed 08 Jun, 2005 20.31
by mr smuf
Gavin Scott wrote:
Needy? Um, yuh huh!

Doesn't this constant messaging interfere with other aspects of your life, like being out with mates?

If you were one of my mates and your girlfriend texted you 35 times during the course of our night in the boozer I'd tear a strip off you for allowing it.
If I go out drinking or whatever I hardly ever reply - but lets face it, I can't go out drinking every night! She knows that I'm more than likely going to be in the house after I've had a busy day at work, which I am like most people. I can probably get away with not replying on weekends as I am actually doing other stuff, but thro the week it's almost impossible.