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James H wrote:What depresses me is the fact that she keeps going on about it, even subtle hints like "he can support my weight on top of him". I'm very protective of her so I don't understand why the hell she did it.

Bleurch. That's too much information from her.

Honest advice from me to you? "Protective" indicates to me that you maybe like her more than makes it comfortable to hear her sexploits blow-by-blow (as it were).

Give her a wide berth. It's the best way.

Gavin Scott wrote:

James H wrote:What depresses me is the fact that she keeps going on about it, even subtle hints like "he can support my weight on top of him". I'm very protective of her so I don't understand why the hell she did it.

Bleurch. That's too much information from her.

Honest advice from me to you? "Protective" indicates to me that you maybe like her more than makes it comfortable to hear her sexploits blow-by-blow (as it were).

Give her a wide berth. It's the best way.

I do, but not any more. Great advice Gav. Thanks, fella.

Oooo yay another one to add to the statistic.

Hmm... face it, its her descion and you should let her sort of go down that road herself, and to be blunt - its not like its any different situation.

Good God alive. James H makes it sound like sex is abnormal.

Loads of 15 yr olds are at it - and I suspect my 15 yr old sister is too, but as long as she's careful, I don't care what she gets up to. I've got my life, and she's got hers.

I can tell James H now, that if he continues to be a fussy old tart, he'll gradually piss her off! As for being "protective"...ha! Seems like you're jealous...

Jamez wrote:Good God alive. James H makes it sound like sex is abnormal.

Loads of 15 yr olds are at it - and I suspect my 15 yr old sister is too, but as long as she's careful, I don't care what she gets up to. I've got my life, and she's got hers.

I can tell James H now, that if he continues to be a fussy old tart, he'll gradually piss her off! As for being "protective"...ha! Seems like you're jealous...

Come come sProut, you know I'm not the type to get jealous.

I just hate you because you stole my name.

Jamez wrote: Loads of 15 yr olds are at it - and I suspect my 15 yr old sister is too, but as long as she's careful, I don't care what she gets up to. I've got my life, and she's got hers.

That's the major bit - you just hope that she's got that bit sussed. I always think sex education in schools is useless - it needs a serious overhaul.

PSE (sex) lessons in my school were dire.

I distinctly remember being around 11 or 12, and the teacher (who was pushing 60) describing what an orgasm "felt like".

Her description put me off wanting to have sex for a long time. I've long since realised she was talking complete bollocks. Litterally.

Jamez wrote:PSE (sex) lessons in my school were dire.

I distinctly remember being around 11 or 12, and the teacher (who was pushing 60) describing what an orgasm "felt like".

Her description put me off wanting to have sex for a long time. I've long since realised she was talking complete bollocks. Litterally.

So how would you teach it then Jamez?

babyben wrote:

Jamez wrote:PSE (sex) lessons in my school were dire.

I distinctly remember being around 11 or 12, and the teacher (who was pushing 60) describing what an orgasm "felt like".

Her description put me off wanting to have sex for a long time. I've long since realised she was talking complete bollocks. Litterally.

So how would you teach it then Jamez?

I wear a belt that says "SEX INSTRUCTOR". When cheekily asked by one of the girls in work if I was any good, I suggested she come out with me last weekend - which she did. A good night was had by all, and my belt reputation remains intact.

In year 9 we got to out condoms on Plastic Willies... the dobbers were flavoured too! yay, that was a fun lesson. Why they were teaching that to a bunch of 13/14 year old sex crazed drunks i dont know...

Remember, James, blackmail is only illegal if you get caught doing it! And, of course, by its nature, SHE is unlikely to tell...